STRESS, WORRIES, AND ANXIETIES

STRESS, WORRIES AND ANXIETIES
Stress, worries and anxieties are undoubtedly major causes of sleeplessness.
So how does one overcome them in order to get a good nights sleep.
Its probably not very practical to get up in the middle of the night and go and see your doctor or psychologist. So what is one to do?.
Well, here is one solution which is very effective if its done correctly. Its also very simple, and that which is simple is usually the most successful.

Its best to do this before you go to bed.
Find a room or space where you will not be disturbed.

Think of a problem or situation which is uppermost in your mind. (maybe your girlfriend/boyfriend has left you. You are about to be sacked by your boss etc)
Write that problem down on a sheet of paper, including the details of who, where, when and what.
That action alone seperates you to a degree from the problem.
Its out there in front of you on paper. Its less passionate now.

Once you are happy you have written it all down, read it back to yourself.
Now write down the possibilities to remedy the situation.
For example, your boss is about to fire you.
1. Tell him to shove his job. 2. Apologise. 3. Ask for a transfer to a different department. 4. Ask him to review the situation 5. Start looking for another job in the morning.
You will start to feel good when you have the answer and can then go back to bed.

If you are uncertain as to which solution, list the advantages and disadvantages of each one you are not sure of.
Returning to the scenario with the boss, if you tell him to 'shove his job.........' then you definitely are fired, but you will feel good, (for a short while)
Apologise. You may not be fired,you still have your job but you will feel bad, (for a short while.)
Sleep well.


Monday, 11 November 2013

What Causes Insomnia in Children?

Behavioral and Medical Problems May Lead to Difficulty Falling, Staying Asleep

Updated March 31, 2011
Reviewed by a board-certified health professional. See About.com's Medical Review Board.

    What Causes Insomnia in Children?
    Sleep issues are one of the most common frustrations of new parents. Taking preventive measures focused on sleep routines and the sleep environment can be very helpful. Many books have been written about this, the most famous is probably Dr. Ferber's "Solve your child's sleep problems."

    How Behavioral Problems Result in Insomnia

    Perhaps the most common and frustrating of the causes of insomnia are difficulties related to your child’s behavior. Babies and toddlers may enjoy being comforted as they transition to sleep, but if they awaken and you are not there, this can be a source of great distress. This may result in frequent tearful tantrums in the middle of the night. This sleep-onset behavioral insomnia can be remedied by letting your child fall asleep alone.
    Another potential problem is toddlers and young children who refuse to go to bed. They will insist on a litany of needs prior to going to sleep: a drink of water, a trip to the bathroom, another bedtime story, a few more minutes with the light on, and the list goes on. This limit-setting insomnia is overcome by setting appropriate boundaries and asserting parental authority.
    Moreover, children need to have a set of healthy sleep habits and a bedtime routine that will ensure a smooth transition to sleep. This includes appropriate sleep hygiene, which eliminates disruptions to sleep and makes the period of time just prior to falling asleep a time of relaxation. In addition, many distractions should be eliminated from the bedroom to ensure an appropriate sleep environment.

    The Role of Medical Problems

    There are a number of medical problems -- including neurologic and psychiatric conditions -- that may lead to insomnia in children. In general, these are rare disorders and other signs would exist beyond insomnia. Some of these possible disorders include:
    In addition, some children (especially teenagers) may have circadian rhythm disorders such as delayed sleep phase syndrome that result in insomnia. These conditions lead to difficulties falling asleep at night and a desire to oversleep in the morning. This occurs because the desired sleep phase is shifted later than is standard. This may interfere with school performance and some school districts are actually shifting the start times to allow teens to sleep in. The use of phototherapy and melatonin may also help to shift these troublesome sleep patterns.

    Other Causes of Insomnia in Children

    Aside from the causes described above, there are a few other possible situations that may result in insomnia in children. Some children may experience insomnia as the result of medication use, especially the use of stimulants in ADHD. Finally, precocious children (those who are intellectually gifted) often have insomnia.
    If your child is having difficulty falling asleep, and simple changes to address behavioral causes are ineffective, you may want to speak to your pediatrician about exploring other possibilities to improve your child’s sleep.
    Source:  http://sleepdisorders.about.com/od/causesofsleepdisorder1/a/What-Causes-Insomnia-In-Children.htm

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